December 2011
594 posts
Anonymous asked: i was raped at my previous school and everyone knows. i moved schools and it helped me deal with it for a while but my past is chasing me. what should i say when people ask me about it? do you know how I should deal with it?
Anonymous asked: i've experiented with many different advice blogs while i've been on tumblr, but you are by far my favorite. you give the bessttt advice. i just wanted to say thank you so much.
Anonymous asked: theres this male teacher at my school and hes starting to creep me out. he always choses me to do stuff in class and one night i was walking down to the station and he was there and just started talking to me. he looks at me alot and its kind of wierd and makes me feel uncomfortable. maybe its all in my head ?? what do i do ?
Anonymous asked: So one of my best friends told me he likes me, and then I developed a huge crush on him. But now... This other girl is like all over him, all the time, and it really angers me, considering she's supposed to be my friend. In a given situation, he even chose her over me, and I was really upset. Any advice on how to hold on to this boy? I really like him a lot.
Anonymous asked: so there is this girl in school that i've been crushing on for almost 7 months now. I feel like she isn't interested at all. we don't talk that much outside of social networking sites like facebook. i think shes perfect in many ways but should i talk to her in person and step out of my comfort zone or move on to some other girl who actually enjoys talking to me?
Anonymous asked: I have trouble controlling my emotions. Every little thing gets me mad or jealous or just hurts me. I take things too personally. It's ruining my relationship with my boyfriend and the special friendship I have with my sister. What can I do?
Anonymous asked: so here's my story. my mom is the nicest person on the planet. she gives everyone everything. she had a horrible childhood and was kicked out of the house when she was 15. she had to raise her 5 younger sisters on her own. she recently got in a minor car accident and has been mentally messed up since. she isn't the same. she's majorly depressed. she was in a phyciatric hospital for...
Anonymous asked: this girl who was my friend started to treat my like i was just a person that she could come to when she had no one else to hang out with. i feel like she just betrayed me and then she came to me and started calling me a bunch of names, quoting scripture out of context and then telling me to grow up and get a life... when she is older than me and i havent even talked to her in months. she is...
Anonymous asked: if a guy lists you as their tumblr crush ....means?
Anonymous asked: Hey. Im 15 and my neighbour and I have a sort of fuck buddy relationship. But the other day he asked if I could like to be in a serious realtionship with him. The only problem is my parents and his parents have been best friends for years and Im worried what they will think. Oh and hes 19. What do you think I should do ?
Anonymous asked: it's been taking me months and months to get over this guy, and I still don't feel like I've made any progress :/ Thoughts?
Anonymous asked: I'm 13.. My boyfriend is almost 15..(: my mom doesn't care about the age though because she's met him and she really likes him as my boyfriend. But we've been dating for almost 7 months.. I know he wants to do more than kIss and I want to to.. But should I? And if so how far should I go?
Anonymous asked: How can I improve my SAT score?
Anonymous asked: my mom and i just got in a really big fight and there was a lot of yelling and such but not i'm concidering taking my life and i've thought about it before and i almost did and i made a list of reason to and reasons to not and i really dont feel like i need to be here. i feel undecided and i just dont know what to do anymore
Working on homework. I'll reply to your messages...
Thank you for being patient with me.
Anonymous asked: i wanted to start masturbating... i dont know what or how to do it though..? help?
Anonymous asked: okay I know this is going to sound weird but I don't care. I like this guy on tumblr and we've been talking and He's really nice and attractive and I don't really know if we get along great because it's over the internet...but I think I like him...he's the same age as me... But every time I message him i feel like I annoy him..I'm always the one starting the...
Anonymous asked: sorry that sounded meaner than i intended, i thought you might have skipped me, answer when you can!
Anonymous asked: Thank you dear you've helped me so much in the past. I lOve everything you say. It's so helpful!<<<33
Anonymous asked: im a 16 year old bi girl, with homophobic parents and girl friends that will be creeped out if i told them
Anonymous asked: wanna answer my problem please? im a 16 year old chick whos bi and has homophobic parents and girl friends whod get creeped out if i told them. what would you honestly do in my situation?
Anonymous asked: I want sex. Really bad. I'm not a virgin and I have no real want for a long time relationship. Touching myself is only great for so long. What do I do?
Anonymous asked: I have really, really low self esteem so whenever I go shopping I get really upset because I look disgusting in everything I try on. When I express how I feel about my body, my mum calls me a bitch and tells me to shut up. I don't really have any friends to talk to about this so it really hurts when my mother of all people won't listen.
at the doctors
Just got my flu shot. Ill be able to reply to all my messages in about an hour. Love you all and have a good day!
Going to the doctors, leave me things in my inbox...
Anonymous asked: I have my boyfriend, and have for years. But I have no friends. They all ditched when we started going out and I tried to get close to them again and they threw it back in my face. I want to make new friends, but I don't know where. I'm 19, so I'm a bit old for some things, and young for others. I took an exercise dance class thinking I might make friends, but I haven't....
Anonymous asked: i told my ex i wanted to go back to being friends because we were fightiong so much being just ex's. he said he can't do that right now and then was flirting with some girls that i don't like that much. and my best friend and i had a "thing" and he screwed me over. this all happened today. besides that, i think i might have a mild type of depression. my mom has sent me to...
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Anonymous asked: Soo I lost my dad four years ago.. And the pain still hurts me and my mom. She still crys every week she goes into depression and then she has raging angers. And she yells at me. What should I do to help her? I've learned to hide my pain I just wanna help her.
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Anonymous asked: there's a guy from my school who likes me. he is very funny and interesting and he told me he likes me but it's all only through our text convos. when he sees me, he acts like he doesn't know me, but i can feel him staring at me all the time. then he sends me texts again. idk what to do, i'm confused. :/
Anonymous asked: Okay,, I've been going out with this guy for 9 months, and i love him to pieces! But he is still best friends with his ex, that really bothers me, but I've learnt to live with it:) lately, he keeps hugging her, and that makes me so jealous it's unbelievable. I feel so guilty for being protective, what should i do?
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Anonymous asked: im considering becoming bullemic... im getting addicted to sticking my fingers down my throat? :/xxxx
Anonymous asked: Nobody knows how much i hate myself. My friends just see the fake smile i use everyday, and even when i'm obviously upset they don't take me seriously. I'm the 'joking friend' but in reality i struggle with depression, self image issues, trying not to self harm again and not crying nearly every night. I don't understand how people can be around somebody as disgusting...
Anonymous asked: Okayy soo my boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year. And the only thing we've done is kiss. He knows I want to take things slow but honestly I kinda wanna move a little faster like making out and fingering and hand jobs.. Nothing more. But is this bad? Should I want to? What do I say to him?
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Anonymous asked: Spit or swallow?
At home sick
so I didn’t go to school that means confess, ask for advice, vent, anything because I’m online now.
Anonymous asked: i found out at the beginning of the year, my dad who i was so close to, isnt my biological dad, and after that we became really distant because i needed time to adapt to it, and i stopped seeing him as much, to cool down, and now i havent seen him in months and my grandma (his mum) told me that hes basically moved on and forgot about me, which breaks my heart because i love him so much and i know...
Anonymous asked: I often feel pressures to loose weight just from society in general. I know I'm not overweight, I'm actually underweight but I still feel the pressure to be skinnier - I'm 5"9' and 120 pounds. Do you have any advice for me to stop thinking I have to loose weight all the time? I just want to be happy with my body the way it is
November 2011
356 posts
Finally found the perfect theme. Your thoughts?
Anonymous asked: i was the one that said i told a girl EVERYTHING and she fucked me over.... your so right, she just wants to feel liked or whatever, i didnt realise it. i told her that i liked her and then she lead me on, so i kept telling her nice stuff until it got to the point one night i just let it all out. i love your advice! it makes me realise things i dont think about. i think its the only relationship...
Anonymous asked: I have this guy, we've been on again off again. I think he's in love with someone else but we still have sex, my suspicions are driving me completely insane. I need to know that when he's fucking me, he's not pretending it's her. I don't want to ask cause it'll make him very angry. He says he likes me but I don't know. How can I know forsure?
Anonymous asked: I really am worried. So my boyfriend tonight was texting me, and was really high. Well, he gets horny when he's high and he was saying that he wants to fuck me. I'm 16 and I have already had sex, and so has he. Losing my virginity isn't a problem here. What I'm worried about is that he just wants to use me for sex... Am I overreacting? What do I do?
Anonymous asked: i have this theme. ok, go to your html line 449 and change where it says "background color"
Anonymous asked: i like this one!! maybe you can just change the background to make it less boring..?
Anonymous asked: I hav a thing with 2 guys ther best friends. The one guy always wrestles with ,emormfinds a way to touch me he always feels me up tho he also always try's to get me on his lap but the other one is caring and nice he always listens to what I have to say.but he started a rumor tht me and him hookdup at the movies and I let him c my boobs.he sed he was Gunna ask me out and I like him but guy me...
Anonymous asked: i like your theme but i couldnt get to the ask box! i have a mini laptop and i can't see it. (i could only ask this because i had another one of your tabs open before you changed it)
Anonymous asked: i dont like your theme at all. sorry just being honest like you asked.
Message me your thoughts on the new theme?
Can you see all my links or not? My laptops too small to see the entire thing :f
Anonymous asked: My crush (also my friend) keeps on hugging everyone except me. I don't know why though... :(
Anonymous asked: do you think its better to spit or swallow ?
Anonymous asked: I sort of feel left out when I'm with my two best friends. It's like they're a tandem and I'm just someone they know. Also, when I talk to them, it's either we talk about their love life or how fun their day was with each other. I feel like I'm annoying them already.
